 In recent months our family persevered through some major transitions. Looking back, I’m sure that God kept sighing. “If she only would trust me. If she would just let go of the reigns, she’d find peace.” And on and on with His infinite patience. It was a trial for me. I look back now and agree with God. I should have just trusted Him. It’s a lesson I keep getting sent back to me to learn, like a spelling test retake, on a huge-er (more huge) level.
5/4/2020
 Joy to the world, The Lord has come! We are the people of faith and this is our holiday anthem. Except the Lord, well, not all of us have connected with Him recently. Full plates, you know how it is. He certainly knows, too. Jesus gets it, we reason. Obligations are unavoidable, responsibilities hover and our focus is on doing it all the best we can. Joy to the world? Doesn’t seem that way as we clamor to do life well.
12/16/2019
 LIFE / DAILY
There are people who are the last to board trend trains, and I admit I’m one of them. We’re last to get smart phones, last to begin using texts, late in the trend to have our DNA done. A friend posted her DNA over a year ago on social media and I rolled my eyes. It held no attraction to me. 8/26/2019
 Holiday shopping is a great time to remember that Jesus said, “I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.” (Matthew 10:16). My daughter was just the almost-victim of fraud as she found a “great” apartment online. It was, in fact, too good to be true. Because of God’s grace, and her typographically-trained designer eye, she detected that a verification document sent by the “renter” was photoshopped. Yes, people are out there to steal our money sometimes. 11/22/2017
 Were you overwhelmed when you realized that the holidays effectively snuck up on you this year? We all know someone who already has their Christmas shopping done and their Christmas card address labels printed in order to mail their cards the day after Christmas. But most of us are bracing as we start the holiday juggle. Exactly how much can we successfully accomplish before the holidays run their course, yet another year? 11/12/2017
 He gripped the worn pencil with his gnarled but steady hand. With determination, he pushed through his hesitance and formed the curving first letter of his name. He paused between strokes, as if exerting great physical effort. All three letters completed, he assessed his work. “Sam” was displayed on the lined wide ruled paper, letters uneven and light, but clear and certain. He looked up, gray, full eyebrows raised in an unspoken question. “Awesome!” I smiled back. In relief, he dropped his pencil, leaned back in the kitchen chair, and exhaled. 9/30/2017
 I grew up in New England where historic little churches still stand in the center of some towns. They are situated on picturesque grassy commons, surrounded by rolling hills and red maple and white oak trees. As young students, we visited these lonely and stark structures on field trips. We were told horror stories of how colonial children would sit for hours at a time, straight backed and paying attention, every Sunday morning, through summer heat and winter frost. 9/24/2017
 She was angry and felt rejected, and she shared bits and pieces of conversations that she had. These conversations had been held, never believing that confidential moments would be publicly aired. But they were being aired now. “He said this, and I said that….” Those sentences, spoken freely months ago, were now pinned up for inspection, criticism and judgement. My friend had broken up with her boyfriend. The last time I had seen someone so passionately plead their case was after a family had left a church, feeling misunderstood and insignificant. Hurt and offended, they spoke, believing they needed to be heard and understood. In both cases, mutual respect had been thrown to the wind. 7/31/2017
 We planned on visiting relatives, anticipating snug and sardine-like accommodations. We were undaunted, as always, by our impending stay and a few mildly inconvenient days because the trade-off was awesome. Our hosts, however, had other ideas about our visit. We were welcomed with news regarding our sleeping arrangements. Surprise! We would be staying in a camper! They had purchased a used one, parked down the winding country road, back in the woods. I don’t like camping, at all. 7/14/2017
 *Ping!* It was a instantaneous, subtle, but very negative reaction to my friend’s mention of another person’s name. The other person was a sister in the Lord, and I hadn’t seen her for a couple of years. I was tempted to roll my eyes, or say something unkind. Instead I stuffed the unpleasant memories that began to surface and moved on in the conversation. 7/4/2017
 Are you completely healed, body, soul and spirit? If so, praise God! If not, then you're like most of us, somewhere along in the process of becoming whole. Many times we aren’t aware of the work that God still is doing in us. Life will be moving along smoothly, then something from nowhere hits us hard. 5/30/2017
 I think it’s safe to say that we can’t appreciate one another’s positions, perspectives and experiences in life. We’re an educated people, and I’m sorry to say, we can be superior about our knowledge. Even without intention, we observe one another’s lives, and we judge. As we assess and evaluate everything around us, we also sometimes reject. We reject ideas, opportunities and theologies, and a lot more. We also reject one another. 5/27/2017
 Has God ever told you to do something big, and then as you moved ahead to do it, opposition rose up? Some people take this as a sign that they have heard wrong, made a mistake, or just become warn out from pushing ahead. Scripture actually tells us that we will find ourselves in rough spots. There are no promises of smooth sailing, day after day, for a lifetime 5/25/2017
 I know a lady who, clad in designer clothes and donning a high end hairdo, will enter any room and scatter its occupants. This sounds harsh, but she personifies the words grumpy and mean, and anyone who knows her knows that she views them as inferior, inadequate, or both. It never occurs to her that she’s who nobody wants to grow up to be. 5/18/2017
 As we grow spiritually, God sometimes allows harder situations and longer waits in order stretch us and build our faith. We don’t always see it that way, however. Condemnation, doubt and discouragement hover around us, and we sometimes believe the lies that we’ve messed up and missed our chance, that we aren’t good enough, and sometimes even question if God is faithful. Don’t bury your head and give up! Instead, fight! Wield the weapons that God has placed in our armory. Victory will come. Here are some ways to defeat doubt and even the deepest discouragement. 5/17/2017
 I had poured a lot into our group, and it had grown so that I could no longer keep tabs on all of its members. This is the point at which God moved our family. We left with a large, framed heart, a beautiful gift from the group. It’s was matted with a thick white border that was covered with dozens of handwritten notes and blessings, signed with Sharpies. It still hangs in our library, and I absolutely can’t glance at it without a whimsical smile, and a prayer for the group that still continues to this day. 5/12/2017
 When we were kids we didn’t know the names for the dysfunctions that were evident in the homes of those we knew and loved. Relatives, neighbors and friends seemed to each have their own unique issues in their homes. We accepted them as part of life, tiptoeing when necessary, jumping through hoops to keep peace, or avoiding them altogether. I had a truly unique situation. My best friend seemed to be from the most truly “functional” family I had ever witnessed. Her family was a sharp contrast to my own. 5/10/2017
 The thermometer and news everywhere in the city told us that it was double-digit below zero. Still, I needed groceries, and I had an infant and a toddler to bring with me wherever I went. As I pulled into the nearly-empty parking lot of the grocery store, powdery snow fell against the dark afternoon sky, giving the impression of oppressive fog. 5/9/2017
 I got'ta hand it to my little guy. He’s had health issues since he was a toddler. Lots of doctors never diagnosed his condition. The most obvious issue, of many, has been his weight, which reached a crisis proportion this last year. Obesity is hard, and it’s harder in a world that judges, criticizes and mocks the person struggling with it. It’s even harder when you’re just a little kid. 5/1/2017
 God has a habit of picking the least likely candidates for kingdom exploits. Sometimes it is hard to imagine a less suitable pick - especially when it is us. Getting past who we know ourselves to be, can be the greatest challenge and the most formidable threat to our destiny. 4/28/2017
 My desk piles up as quickly as the bins at the post office. This is because of five kids at various stages of life and school and jobs, household responsibilities, things to read before throwing out, things to file, things to mail. Decluttering experts have a lot to say about preventing such piles. I’ve read lots of these books and articles. Little of it has helped me. Even today, my desk needs tackling, big time. 4/11/2017
 One day I decided to participate in the social media phenomenon. That day my eyes were opened to the fact that it was true, my moves were being recorded. We all see the cameras hanging from traffic lights, so this should have been no surprise, but what I didn’t understand was that any minute of every day, my keystrokes were sending computers everywhere very personal information about me. 3/29/2017
 You probably take your refrigerator for granted. Nothing personal. The fact is that unless you’ve grown up without electricity or have no access to cool storage, you probably grab the milk and jam without a second thought. I don’t. Anymore. Our custom fridge, designed to blend with the caramel woodgrain of our country cabinets, stopped working months ago and stands empty in our lovely, relentlessly-occupied kitchen. 3/24/2017
 We are barraged by choices. Most of them are easy access, just a click or two and a credit card away. Others are free. They come before our eyes and ears in the form of media that seeks to sell us products, agendas or opinions. It’s very easy to be swept away, following the course that entices. 3/19/2017
 Peter fixed his eyes on the flames leaping off the burning logs as he tried to hide from the guards' pesky stares. Twice, now, he had been accused of being a follower of Jesus and twice he had sworn until the accusations had faltered into a subdued silence. But the mocking of the soldiers as they questioned Jesus devoured the silence. Each new question tightened the steel grip of fear on Peter's heart. Not even the tongues of fire could melt his fear. 3/16/2017 |